What is think about a broken family?
There may be some people who think it's normal, but if you've experienced it myself and feel how it feels to be in a broken family? for a child who is in a broken family may feel overwhelmed and even can make it behave badly, but it does not happen to me, why?
Mindset
Every human being has a different mindset, and this makes a major factor of any action that would be that person. The mindset is what I want to share to everyone who read my writing is where a good mindset will produce something good and bad thought patterns will result in something bad, how do I fix this?
Positive or Negative
Mindset is further divided into two terms namely between positive or negative. Negative thought patterns will tend to do things that can ruin himself or others, usually called destructive. if the positive mindset they will tend to change something negative into a positive. how?
How to make something Negative into a Positive
I will explain by using examples that can be understood by everyone. As an example of a broken family life itself. A thought about my dad is "like playing with a prostitute", then what do I think? I do not think that my father is someone who makes the problems in my family. But I think that maybe my dad had a very large degree of saturation in the family, so it requires something different. So it makes me think that it is reasonable.
thinking about "my father always treated me no good", then what do I think? I think, turned out to be children who are not treated well by his parents it feels very uncomfortable, so I think someday when I have my own family should be able to provide the best for my family.
thinking about "I have always been pressured by their parents" and what I think? I think maybe my parents had very high expectations of me so that I can live better than them someday.
That's some things I could share to help the reader all in order to better understand and take its meaning. Any problem can be overcome with better, it's just how we can build our mindset to deal with it.
There may be some people who think it's normal, but if you've experienced it myself and feel how it feels to be in a broken family? for a child who is in a broken family may feel overwhelmed and even can make it behave badly, but it does not happen to me, why?
Mindset
Every human being has a different mindset, and this makes a major factor of any action that would be that person. The mindset is what I want to share to everyone who read my writing is where a good mindset will produce something good and bad thought patterns will result in something bad, how do I fix this?
Positive or Negative
Mindset is further divided into two terms namely between positive or negative. Negative thought patterns will tend to do things that can ruin himself or others, usually called destructive. if the positive mindset they will tend to change something negative into a positive. how?
How to make something Negative into a Positive
I will explain by using examples that can be understood by everyone. As an example of a broken family life itself. A thought about my dad is "like playing with a prostitute", then what do I think? I do not think that my father is someone who makes the problems in my family. But I think that maybe my dad had a very large degree of saturation in the family, so it requires something different. So it makes me think that it is reasonable.
thinking about "my father always treated me no good", then what do I think? I think, turned out to be children who are not treated well by his parents it feels very uncomfortable, so I think someday when I have my own family should be able to provide the best for my family.
thinking about "I have always been pressured by their parents" and what I think? I think maybe my parents had very high expectations of me so that I can live better than them someday.
That's some things I could share to help the reader all in order to better understand and take its meaning. Any problem can be overcome with better, it's just how we can build our mindset to deal with it.
My Background
My name is Hans, who was born 21 August 1989 in Indonesia. My current age is 22 years old writing this. And I've applied this mindset since I was in high school. And indeed my family is a broken family and my parents had a very bad behavior. Currently I just finished my college and not having a job. I'm used to live independently since childhood. I can cook my food to feed themselves, I used to live alone in the house or rent a house that I live alone now. And i also included in a poor family.
For more details or would like to express the problem to me you can send an email or add my YM in wanta_kerenz@yahoo.com or can contact me directly at the number +6287882741845.
Thank you, and I'll see you in my next article.
My name is Hans, who was born 21 August 1989 in Indonesia. My current age is 22 years old writing this. And I've applied this mindset since I was in high school. And indeed my family is a broken family and my parents had a very bad behavior. Currently I just finished my college and not having a job. I'm used to live independently since childhood. I can cook my food to feed themselves, I used to live alone in the house or rent a house that I live alone now. And i also included in a poor family.
For more details or would like to express the problem to me you can send an email or add my YM in wanta_kerenz@yahoo.com or can contact me directly at the number +6287882741845.
Thank you, and I'll see you in my next article.
